{"id":10142,"date":"2016-01-25T08:43:31","date_gmt":"2016-01-25T14:43:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/?p=10142"},"modified":"2016-01-26T09:01:55","modified_gmt":"2016-01-26T15:01:55","slug":"to-do-lists-are-overwhelming-and-depressing-1-trick-to-fix-that","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/2016\/01\/to-do-lists-are-overwhelming-and-depressing-1-trick-to-fix-that.html","title":{"rendered":"To-do lists are overwhelming and depressing. 1 trick to fix that."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-10143 size-medium\" title=\"Photo by Becky McCray.\" src=\"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Lunch-BLT.-Photo-by-Becky-McCray.-300x180.jpg\" alt=\"Photo by Becky McCray.\" width=\"300\" height=\"180\" srcset=\"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Lunch-BLT.-Photo-by-Becky-McCray.-300x180.jpg 300w, https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Lunch-BLT.-Photo-by-Becky-McCray..jpg 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>To-do lists can be overwhelming. They can put too many demands on you, too many deadlines. You&#8217;re not the only person who feels this way.<\/p>\n<p>My friend <a href=\"http:\/\/robhatch.com\/\">Rob Hatch<\/a> told me about a friend of his who felt just like this. He hated to-do lists because they made him feel much too pressured, like they were all negative things pressing on him.<\/p>\n<p>So he decided to put some positive things on his to-do list.<\/p>\n<p>He put &#8220;have lunch&#8221; on his list. Then he could look forward to lunch, enjoy it and check it off.<br \/>\nHe put &#8220;have a beer&#8221; on his list. And he did. And he enjoyed it and checked it off.<\/p>\n<p>To-do lists are a lot less depressing and overwhelming when you <a href=\"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/2009\/01\/6-most-important-things.html\">only put 6 things<\/a> and when you make sure at least 2 are things you already want to do.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel the same way about to-do lists, what are two things <strong>you like<\/strong> to do that you could put on your list today?<\/p>\n<p><em>New to SmallBizSurvival.com? Take the <a href=\"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/guided-tour.html\">Guided Tour<\/a>. Like what you see? <a href=\"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/get-updates.html\">Get our updates<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To-do lists can be overwhelming. They can put too many demands on you, too many deadlines. You&#8217;re not the only person who feels this way. My friend Rob Hatch told me about a friend of his who felt just like this. He hated to-do lists because they made him feel much too pressured, like they [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":10143,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","episode_type":"","audio_file":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","filesize_raw":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,12,17],"tags":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Lunch-BLT.-Photo-by-Becky-McCray..jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10142"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10142"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10142\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10147,"href":"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10142\/revisions\/10147"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10143"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10142"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10142"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/smallbizsurvival.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10142"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}